Tinder Openers For Hookups

Dec 07, 2020 Tinder is a notorious dating app. Heard, hear, it’s only for casual hookups. A dating app could lead to a serious relationship. Hey, definitely get it. OK, but a LOT of men (both men and women) have utilized tinder to build real relationships with really great women, resulting in some truly memorable, unforgettable experiences.

What Are Good Openers For Tinder
Tinder Openers For Hookups
What Are The Best Tinder Openers

Tinder has gotten a bad reputation. Heard, hear, it’s only for casual hookups. You could get a real serious relationship out of a dating app. Hey, definitely get it. It’s true, there are a lot of men who have used tinder to create real relationships with amazing women. This has resulted in unforgettable, memorable experiences. 10 Tinder Openers She Can’t Resist – Proven To Work! 2021 Tinder quickly becomes an exercise in frustration when you can’t seem to start a conversation with the matches you really want to meet. But thanks to these 10 proven Tinder openers, all that’s about to change! Instant Bonus: Steal our 14 all-time BEST Tinder openers so ALL your.

About a year ago I heard from more and more guys how they get laid multiple times a month without much effort. They said with the help of Tinder they hooked up more times in the last months than they did in the last years.

I tried it out but for some reason Tinder didn’t work for me, I got just a few matches, and it was hard to get even one number after a week. So I tough it was bullshit and deleted the app again.

Until I found a few articles (1,2,3) about the rise of STD (sexually transmitted diseases) within the past few years and that apps like Tinder are mainly responsible for this increase. It affected especially young people between the ages of 15 – 24.

That’s sick, right? One more reason you should always wear a condom. But it also showed me that Tinder seems to work really good, for some people. Why didn’t it work for me? This had to change, so I spend a whole year to find out every little trick that could improve my results.

Today I don’t need more than 30 minutes to find a new girl and get laid with her. To remember everything, I wrote down all the things I’ve found out and summarized it. I tough about publishing it, but it was so powerful that I wanted to keep it to myself, because when everyone is doing it, the effect will fade. However, my brother gave me the idea that I could block people from my country to access this site. Call me crazy but I blocked every country except five. This means more action for me, and luckily you seem to have access so more action for you too.

The Big Misconception about Tinder and Hookups

My first step was to find out what’s going on in their mind; I had to understand the female perspective. The easy way would be to ask girls who are using Tinder “How do you decide which guy you are going to hook up with?”. Unfortunately, most of the time girls can’t explain why they do this or that, especially when her feelings are involved. “It just happened” is the answer you’ll get. Men are primary making decisions based on logic but women make emotional decisions based on how she feels in that moment.

Some of you might think “Sean, why are you talking about emotions, I just want to get laid!”. We tend to think that emotions are only necessary if you want to find a girlfriend and connect on a deeper level and so on. But in reality girls are much more logical when they decide with which guy they are having a relationship than with which guy they want to sleep.

Mistake #1 – Thinking like a man

A guy thinks logically and acts actively with a plan in mind: “I want to hook up with some hot girls and I heard tinder would be the easiest way for that. My plan is to get some numbers, then dates and hopefully she’ll let me fuck her on the first date”. That’s it and I’m sure you were thinking similar.

=> Purpose: Getting laid.

Contrary to a girl, let’s call her Olivia, who acts upon her feelings without a clear intention or plan in mind: “I’m feeling bored and a little lonely… hmm it’s been a few months since I broke up with my ex and I’m single quite a while now. Whatever, the right guy will come eventually. But what if he doesn’t I’m getting older and maybe I’m not so attractive anymore. I should try this Tinder; Ashley said it’s funny, I’ll have some nice flirts and maybe Mr. Right comes along.”

=> No purpose, just motivations like Validation, Entertainment, Romance.

Mistake #2 – Creating a Hookup-Persona

Most think that if you want to get laid on Tinder, you just need to take some half nude mirror-selfies after pumping up in the gym, turn her on with some dirty texts and send dick pics. This might work on Grindr but it won’t bring you much success on Tinder.

When we see half nude girls posting mirror selfies and sending dirty lines, we get turned, so why shouldn’t it work the other way round?

There are several reasons for this:

1. Girls are less attracted to visual things than men.
2. It kills the anticipation and shows that you are too easy.
3. They can get those stuff from every guy, it’s not exciting like it is for you.
4. It makes them lose trust because they know that you send this to every girl.

Mistake #3 – Making her feel like a slut

Tinder is known to be a Hookup App, but that doesn’t mean you can treat girls like prostitutes. No girl wants to be a slut, even if she had over 20 sex partners, she wouldn’t want anyone to see her as a slut. It would mean she’s cheap, guys would treat her with less respect, and if they spread the word about her, she would lose her face in the society.

The funny thing is, no matter how many hookups she already had, she will never admit being a slut. She doesn’t even confess is to herself most of the times.

What does this teach us? Avoid everything that makes her feel this way! This includes sending dirty lines or photos upfront, trying to arrange a sex-date and talking about sex too early.

Mistake #4 – Not understanding female sexuality

She will probably end up getting laid because girls love having sex with different partners as much as we do. But it’s a little more complicated, here’s what you need to be aware of:

Getting laid is not her primary intention. The number of girls on Tinder that are actively searching for someone to fuck is low. Most of them just want to meet a few guys, have some fun and see where things are going.
Trust and comfort are required. In order to get seduced, she needs to let loose and feel comfortable with you. Built trust by removing her main fears like being judged, meeting a weird person or getting raped.
The foreplay begins before the date. Male arousal is like a light switch, it’s either on, or off. Female arousal is more like a volume knob. It’s an evolving process, and she needs to be warmed up before it gets dirty.

Mistake #5 – Thinking that girls who dress sexy are easy

A very helpful and time-saving skill that you need on Tinder is being able to filter girls. Let’s assume you’ve got a match with a good looking girl, there are three categories she can be placed in.

Attention Whore: These girls are stealing your time. It’s easy to fall into their trap because they often dress sexy and look easy. However, it’s difficult to get them on a date because they use Tinder mainly to get validation and to be entertained.
Girlfriend Material: There are also a lot of girls on Tinder, who are looking for a serious relationship. There are little clues that help you differentiate between hookup and girlfriend material.
Hookup Material: The famous “Not looking for hookups” in her bio doesn’t mean anything. It’s the result of mistake #3, a protection of her ego because she doesn’t want anyone to think she’s a slut.

Now you know about the most common mistakes and got a view into the female mind. This should help you to get a better understanding what’s going on. Next I’m going to show you how to do it the right way, let’s start with the opening:

How to avoid her Spam-Filter

Olivia starts using Tinder the way I described it in mistake #1 and within a couple minutes she swipes right on a guy who seems to be attractive. It’s a match! Yay.. then the next one, another match. This continues with every guy she likes until she has about ten matches. Most of them have already written “Hey”; “How are you?”; “You’re so beautiful!”..

So many chats that need to be answered. What starts as something fun, quickly becomes stressful. In order to avoid the stress, her mind turns into a spam-filter, just like your email-inbox. Within seconds, she filters out all the crap by simply ignoring it. In her case, these are all of the boring and creepy messages. It’s different for each girl, dependent how many guys she matches with and how willing she is to have a conversation. On average at least 80% of all texts will be ignored to concentrate on the ones who seem to be interesting.

How do you write a message, which captures her interest? There are five ways how you can create a successful Tinder line yourself. In order to help you remember them, I divided them in the following parts:

Personal. Give her the impression that you are interested in her as a person. Writing her name is one step in the right direction. Take a closer look at her bio and each of her photos, is there anything unusual or interesting? Bring up something about it. Try to guess what type of person she is and make statements about her. It doesn’t matter if you’re right, even if you’re completely wrong, it gives you something to continue the conversation with.

Entertaining. Girls just wanna have fun. Be playful and funny, a laugh is always beneficial and makes it much easier to proceed. The hottest girls are not desperately searching for a boyfriend. They use it for entertainment, it’s your job to get them attracted. Pro-Tip: Make up a short story or a joke about her, but be careful it can easily backfire if she is sensitive and you cross her line.

Nifty. I made sure that the pickup lines, which I’m going to give you later on, are not popular yet. You don’t want to use a line that she has already read before. It won’t work, it’s lame and she probably won’t answer, because she will feel like one of many. The easiest way to be unique is to …

Irritating. A direct opener would be “You look really sexy in that dress”. She instantly knows what you mean and that she can have you anytime. If you say something like “You look like trouble”, it makes her think for a moment, why you said that about her and whether it’s a good or bad thing. This way you catched her attention and she is much more likely to reply.

Short. Don’t write more than two sentences in your first message. Many guys are writing her, therefore girls on Tinder are lazy and have a short attention span. If your opening line is too long, she won’t read it. You can increase your effort, after she proves that she is worth it. For an attractive guy she is just another pretty face, so keep your value.

I guess you noticed it, if you don’t: read the first letters of every point. Together they create the word P.E.N.I.S. I’m sure that will make it stick. So next time you write a girl on tinder, just remember the P.E.N.I.S. – Opening Method.

Now you got all the knowledge you need to create your own opening lines. This way you can be absolute sure, that she has never heard them before. However, if you want something that you can use right away, here are some of the best hookup lines. Use them to start a conversation on tinder especially if you want to get laid.

Tinder Hookup Lines – 5 Examples that help you get laid

All the advice in this article is proven to work, primarily because most guys are clueless, so it gives the ones that know about it a great advantage. A few thousand men are reading my free tinder articles every day so to keep the advice powerful, I have to limit the number of people who are using the tips.

That’s why the following part is only for guys, who like us on Facebook or Twitter. Don’t worry this article will not appear just the SoulmateSystem.

What Are Good Openers For Tinder

Thank you for liking us! Here are the hookup lines:

Do your parents know your using Tinder?
You must have driven your parents crazy.
You look like trouble!
My mother warned me about girls like you.
You look so shy and innocent but maybe I’m wrong?

5 are not enough? Here are some bonus lines:

We would never get along
We could never date. It would be just fights and make up sex
You are either the coolest girl on Tinder or a fucking weirdo!
I know that beautiful smile, you are totally evil.

These lines will provoke her to reply, even is she didn’t want to because they create that feeling which triggers her. Every guy is different, try them out and you will notice which one works best for you.

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Tinder Icebreakers

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Tinder Icebreakers
Tinder Icebreakers: Online Dating Conversation Starter

I have written 50 good tinder ice breakers especially for you. You can divide them into:Some are very original, some are funny, some are challenging and others are a combination.

From today on, you will never be filled with your mouth full of teeth once you have received a match at Tinder!

I suppose I have to say something nice now?
“Apparently you have a good taste, (name)
Hey, I’m not looking for sex. Hugs though. Do you want to be my cuddle buddy?
I hope you didn’t match me alone because of my appearance
Hey [name], I hope you have more to offer than just a nice head.
Hello [name], I really thought you were the nicest girl I met in the last five minutes.
Hi [name], I want to make one thing clear to you: I don’t send a nude photo in the first 20 messages.
Hi [name], what would you do if I were behind you now?
Hey, you could be my cute girl next door.
‘Hi [name], what would you do with me if you could get away with it with impunity?
‘Hey [name], do you have any secret tips for me on a first Tinder date?
Hi [name], you are my new chat friend for today!
Hi [name], if you could confess something for today, what would it be?
Hey [name], what’s the most idiotic opening sentence you’ve ever received?
OK tell. What is your excuse to sit on Tinder?
Dare or the Truth. You start!
Trump or Clinton?
What gave you a smile today?
How would you spend 10 million?
What would you change if you were president?
What makes you unique?
If you had a giraffe as a pet, what would you call it?

Ice Breakers For Tinder

I’m tired of Tinder for today … or are you nice?
If you could get a product from the supermarket for free for a year, what would it be?
Hey [name], to celebrate our match I baked a cake.
If you could invest a pizza with four ingredients, what would it be?
What’s in your favorite cocktail?
Which of your photos do you think I like best?
If you were in a band, which instrument would you like to play?
Do you prefer ten thousand euros in cash or in the bank?
Which film did you have to cry about recently? (I will not tell)
Restaurant or cozy cooking together on our first date?
Hey [name], which actor did you fall in love with as a teenager?
Why aren’t you learning, [name]?
Dancing or singing?
This is not an opening sentence! Hi:)
Hello, have you matched me for the same reason that I have you?
Nice profile. Why don’t we have a date yet?
Is it true what they say about girls called [name]?
I was actually hoping that you would start the conversation ..
Are you hungry too? What shall we order?
Where were you yesterday? I was at your door with a delicious bottle of wine!
What do you want for Santa Claus?
All I want for Christmas is…
Do you also feel like beer?
I want to go out … where are we going?
My dog liked your photos (no joke)
If we got married, where would you take me on a honeymoon?
I don’t actually have an opening sentence. I just thought you were interesting
Hi;) What would you do if you came across a killer clown?

Best Pick Up Line Tinder

Congratulations with me as a Tinder match ?
Wow I just met your twin sister … only she WAS blonde ?
A match on valentine / christmas / ….
We have chosen each other purely on appearance. Now let’s both pretend that we are super interested in each other’s inner self.
You seem like a lady with a very spontaneous self-expression, but also that you have feelings that you are sometimes unsure about.
Omelette or pancakes in the morning? Tea or coffee? Strawberry or chocolate?
We’ll just lie to your parents later how we met. Deal?
8. Hey who are you?
Hey, I don’t know if we match but you seem like an interesting combination of tough and gentle ..
PS. Hi I am .. / PS: Snowboarder or Skier
If you are the one, I will jump a hole in the air. If not, I still do it.
What is the best opening sentence you have used to decorate a beautiful man?
12. I am awesome, what are you?
I am looking for a lady who is looking for a ([values]: honest, adventurous, ambitious, sporting, hard-working, spiritual, humorous, intellectual, independent and male) man.
(Emoticon of cutlery) All I miss is a small spoon.
I have 1 word for you … Cool / Fascinating / Awesome
I have 1 word for your third photo … Cool / Fascinating / Awesome.
Also use these words specifically for compliments.

Tinder Icebreakers: Online Dating Conversation Starter

We all experienced it once: you are at a party,wedding party or drink and you don’t know anyone. Ten tips of tinder ice breakers to get the conversation going.

Give a (genuine!) Compliment. Find something worth mentioning: an outfit, hairstyle, handsome bag or crazy shoes. Then ask for details, so that a simple’thank you’ is not enough as an answer. Often the ice is broken.
If the person has come with his or her beloved, you can ask how they met. People often like to tell that: it is a cheerful story that they have usually told more often. Also during the story often enough similarities come up which you can then continue to embroider.
If you are in a philosophical mood, there are already some drinks in the man and the atmosphere is there you could ask about the happiest moment in someone’s life. This can lead to beautiful, deeper conversations. You have to have a little knowledge of people and a sense of timing. Prefer not to ask this of a cheerful colleague of sales.
Almost everyone loves food and a striking number of people also enjoy talking about it. What did anyone eat? What are the best restaurants? Can you cook a little yourself ? How do you prefer your eggs? Again: don’t ask this happy sales colleague. Or ofcourse.
If you really do not remember, there is always Kim Kardashian. Nice? Or just really stupid?

Ice Breaker Lines

Would you like to get well prepared? Then read on, Kardashian news enough, after all.
Ask ‘If you could meet someone you don’t know yet, who would it be? And what would you talk about? “
Work can also be a good subject. Telling about something every day puts people at ease. Make things livelier by asking about someone’s dream career or most embarrassing moment.
Don’t like the cows and calves? Daredevils simply immediately ask about the core: “what is the driving force in your life?”
People like to talk about themselves. ‘How do you spend your day? What is new in your life? “
Books, travel and music are pleasant subjects. Ask for tips.

Best Online Dating Icebreakers: Tinder Ice Breakers

Avoid compliments about her beauty.Why? Check the chart below an cupid investigation.

Do, dare or the truth?
Immediately write your number in words: plus three and six …… ..
I really like your background from your profile photo / Tinder bio…. WOW
I am sure that we are the worst Tinder match ever.
Do you believe in love on the first swipe?
Funny .. I think I see you right now … Take a look behind you.
You have an interesting Facebook page… (You don’t even have to see it)
I just saw a screenshot on a Tinder website with your Tinder profile as an example: O
You saw my special Tinder profile and felt…. (Let her fill in)
My favorite fruit is a … and my favorite …
Mission impossible: From the moment you read this message you have 10 minutes to … (think of an assignment)
Men have it so much easier than women … I think you know exactly why.
On the first photo you really look like a … (something positive, but I think you’re really a … (something negative)
I know this profile is fake (name), but may I have the real name of the model you used for the photos.
You should have known how many times I had to move to the left to see such a cute girl like you.
We have the same … / Have you ever ….
I don’t know what it is (name), but you have something interesting in you …
Hey, we match future ex wife
What have you never done before and are you going to do this week?
Good afternoon, stranger
Woman’s breasts or buttocks?
Hi, I am (name), nice to “meet you”.

Best Tinder Openers: Tinder Ice Breakers

Try them all out and see with which Tinder opening sentence you get the most female responses. Remember that every woman is different and not all of them will respond equally positively. These opening sentences are effective because you immediately filter women for humor and sarcasm.

If they send something boring back then you know you’re dealing with a dead house sparrow. It is advisable to adjust them slightly to the profile description and photos of your matches.